Stef Philippou • April 24, 2021 • 5 min read
Diet is an often-used word and one that seems to carry a lot of stigma, pressure, and weight behind it, excuse the pun!
The definition of a diet is following a set way of eating of certain kinds of foods and drinks. The diet plan often has strict rules and protocols which must be obeyed at all times. If you are not sticking to the laws, then effectively you are not on the diet and are off track and failing.
We should instead use words such as nutrition, hydration, lifestyle management and long-term eating. This means adopting better individual eating habits that stick for most of the time whilst living our normal day to day lives.
So, what is the correct nutrition, hydration, lifestyle and eating plan?
The answer is – the one that works best for you at this present moment without causing constant stress and disruption in your life. The best nutrition, hydration, lifestyle and eating plan is the one you can stick to for at least 80% of the time.
This is called the 80/20 rule and means that you must be strict and on track for at least 80% of the time, with the remaining 20% available for going off course if you want to. Effectively, the not so healthy 20% will be covered by the healthier 80% and you will still be able to achieve your health and fitness goals.
If you were to do a quick search on amazon.com for “Diet Books” you would get over 60 000 results! With so many diet books to choose from, which one is the correct diet – if there is even such a thing.
There are countless ways of eating and using food and drink to help you achieve your goals. There is no one type of diet plan that works for every human being on the planet and just because it worked for the author, or your friend, that does not mean it will work for you.
So be mindful if you do buy and follow a certain diet book plan just because it is a best-seller or it has the most, or best, reviews, that it may not work for you. Maybe it has a catchy title with a great looking cover and your friend or colleague bought it and now recommends you to follow the diet because it worked for them.
Before you decide what plan or way of eating is right for you, just remember – we are as different and unique on the outside, as we are on the inside.
We therefore require nutrition and hydration in various constantly changing amounts (portion sizes), macronutrient ratios (protein, carbohydrates and fats), micronutrient densities (vitamins, minerals and essential fatty acids), as well as at certain times of the day (breakfast, lunch, dinner and snacks).
Human beings are metabolically different from one another. Metabolism is the speed and rate of chemical reactions in our bodies that break down food into available energy for us to use straight away, or to store for future use. Our overall metabolic rate is very individual and can depend on factors such as age, sex, genetic makeup, our environment, exercise type, intensity and frequency, as well as the climate we live in.
One thing for sure when it comes to eating and drinking is the higher the quality, the better it will be for you. This applies to all plant and animal produce, as well as water.
Poor quality means you do not get all of the micronutrients and macronutrients your body needs every single day to function and perform optimally and healthily. You can overload your liver and kidneys with the many toxic chemicals from pesticides, rodenticides, antibiotics and even microplastics found in the food chain.
Toxins stored in the body fat of purposely fattened up animals, for more profit to the farmer when sold, can play havoc on your body. Be cautious of eating the fatty parts of meat from poorly raised and inappropriately fed animals.
Consume as much high quality, natural and unprocessed foods and drinks. These include free-range, organic, pasture-raised, completely grass fed, biodynamic, wild caught, and artesian well (naturally filtered) water. The farming system should be local, holistic, sustainable and a closed diversified ecosystem, where it contributes to the environment instead of damaging it.
We are often dehydrated and thirsty before we are hungry, so keep drinking high-quality water throughout the day to suppress the urge to keep eating, when it is not necessary. The exact amount of water you should be drinking depends on factors such as climate, body weight, exercise type, intensity and frequency, as well as other foods and drinks you have already consumed.
As a general minimal amount, we should aim to drink 0.033 litres of water per kilogram of body weight. Therefore, a 100kg person needs to drink at least 3.3 litres of water per day.
About the author:
Stef Philippou is a Health and Fitness Professional living and working in Dubai. He coaches, trains, inspires, motivates and educates people to live balanced and fulfilling lives to achieve their personal goals and dreams.
Sustainable long-term results means working with Stef on nutrition and hydration, sleep and rest, movement and exercise, as well as stress management, all critical to living a happy holistic life!
He can be contacted through www.ptstef.com

Your new baby has arrived, and you are eager to get back into shape. However, [losing weight after pregnancy](https://nabtahealth.com/articles/7-healthy-eating-tips-for-postpartum-weight-loss/) takes time and patience, especially because your body is still undergoing many hormonal and metabolic changes. Most women will lose half their baby weight by 6-weeks postpartum and return to their pre-pregnancy weight by 6 months after delivery. For long-term results, keep the following tips in mind. Prior to beginning any diet or exercise, [please consult with your physician](https://nabtahealth.okadoc.com/). 1\. **Dieting too soon is unhealthy.** Dieting too soon can delay your recovery time and make you more tired. Your body needs time to heal from labor and delivery. Try not to be so hard on yourself during the first 6 weeks postpartum. 2\. **Be realistic**. Set realistic and attainable goals. It is healthy to lose 1-2 pounds per week. Don’t go on a strict, restrictive diet. Women need a minimum of 1,200 calories a day to remain healthy, and most women need more than that — between 1,500 and 2,200 calories a day — to keep up their energy and prevent mood swings. And if you’re nursing, you need a bare minimum of 1,800 calories a day to nourish both yourself and your baby. 3\. **Move it**. There are many benefits to exercise. Exercise can promote weight loss when combined with a reduced calorie diet. Physical activity can also restore your muscle strength and tone. Exercise can condition your abdominal muscles, improve your mood, and help prevent and promote recovery from postpartum depression. 4\. **Breastfeed**. In addition to the many benefits of breastfeeding for your baby, it will also help you lose weight faster. Women who gain a reasonable amount of weight and breastfeed exclusively are more likely to lose all weight six months after giving birth. Experts also estimate that women who breastfeed retain 2 kilograms (4.4 pounds) less than women who don’t breastfeed at six months after giving birth. 5\. **Hydrate**. Drink 8 or 9 cups of liquids a day. Drinking water helps your body flush out toxins as you are losing weight. Limit drinks like sodas, juices, and other fluids with sugar and calories. They can add up and keep you from losing weight. 6. **Don’t skip meals**. Don’t skip meals in an attempt to lose weight. It won’t help, because you’ll be more likely to binge at other meals. Skipping meals will also make you feel tired and grouchy. With a new baby, it can be difficult to find time to eat. Rather than fitting in three big meals, focus on eating five to six small meals a day with healthy snacks in between. 7\. **Eat the rainbow.** Stock up on your whole grains, fruits, and vegetables. Consuming more fruits and vegetables along with whole grains and lean meats, nuts, and beans is a safe and healthy diet. ose weight after postpartum Is one of the biggest challenge women face worldwidely. Different Expertise and studies indicated that female might lose approximately 13 pounds’ weight which is around 6 KG in the first week after giving birth. The essential point here is that dieting not required for losing the weight, diet often reduce the amount of some important vitamins, minerals and nutrients. **Here are seven tips from the professional nutritionist perspective that can be considered for losing weight after postpartum these are;** 2\. Considered food like fish, chicken, nuts, and beans are excellent sources of protein and nutrients. 3\. A healthy serving of fat, such as avocado, chia seeds or olive oil 4\. With the balance diet please consider to drink plenty of water to stay hydrated. 5\. Regular exercise helps to shed extra pounds and improve overall health. 6\. Fiber-rich foods should be included to promote digestive health and support weight loss efforts. 7\. Don’t forget about self-care. By making these dietary changes and incorporating physical activity, you can achieve postpartum weight loss sustainably and healthily. **Sources:** * Center for Disease and Control and Prevention * Healthy Weight: it’s not dieting, it’s a lifestyle. Obstetrics and Gynecology * The risks of not breastfeeding for mothers and infants. The American College of Obstetrics and Gynecologists * Guidelines of the American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists for exercise during pregnancy and the postpartum period. Powered by Bundoo®

Food-borne illnesses do not discriminate — anyone can become sick. Raw oysters have earned a reputation as a potentially dangerous food. Also, some groups of people have a [greater risk of serious illness](https://nabtahealth.com/articles/is-fish-oil-safe-for-children/) than others, including children. Eating raw oysters comes with the risk of being exposed to Vibrio vulnificus, a potentially life-threatening bacteria. Young children, those under 5 years of age, are more susceptible to food-borne illness because their immunity isn’t fully developed. Here are some facts you should know before you give your young child raw oysters: ##### What will happen if my child eats a contaminated oyster? In reality, allowing your [child to eat](https://nabtahealth.com/articles/is-it-safe-for-toddlers-and-children-to-eat-raw-oysters/) raw oysters might have zero consequences, no matter how many he or she eats. Unlike other bacteria, V. vulnificus cannot be smelled, seen, or tasted. There is no way to determine if the raw oyster is safe to eat. V. vulnificus cannot be killed by a lot of hot sauce, nor are you guaranteed safety by letting your child just try one or two oysters. If your [child eats a raw oyster](https://nabtahealth.com/articles/is-it-safe-for-toddlers-and-children-to-eat-raw-oysters/) that is contaminated with V. vulnificus, it is important to be familiar with the signs and symptoms of food poisoning. In generally healthy people, V. vulnificus can cause vomiting, diarrhea, and abdominal pain. In some cases, it can become worse and infect the blood (invasive septicemia) resulting in fever, chills, and septic shock. V. vulnificus is a serious cause for concern because about half of people who contract the blood infection die. If you are suspicious of food poisoning and/or your child has symptoms, get in touch with your healthcare provider, or even head to the ER. ##### What should I do? To be safe, you may want to hold off on feeding your child raw oysters for a few years, or at least until he or she is five years of age. If oysters are a staple in your household, or a special treat here and there, make sure to thoroughly cook a few for your little one to try. Cooking (prolonged exposure to high heat) is the only way to kill the bacteria and make sure you and your family will be safe. Get yourself a [coach](https://nabtahealth.com/product/conscious-motherhood-coaching-session/) and learn more. **Sources:** * Food & Drug Administration * Raw Oyster Myths. Powered by Bundoo®

* Jasmine Collin from [Love Parenting UAE](https://www.loveparentinguae.com/), Nabta Health’s hypnotherapy partner, takes us through her guide to all things Hypnobirthing. * Learn how Hypnobirthing supports natural birth, reducing pain and creating an optimal environment during labour. * Nabta’s aim to empower women to reach their health goals as naturally as possible is very much in line with Jasmine’s approach and the benefits of hypnotherapy in labour. * Book Jasmine’s popular online Hypnobirthing course [here.](https://nabtahealth.com/product/the-love-birthing-hypnobirthing-course/) You may have heard of hypnobirthing due to its increasing popularity with expecting parents and [celebrities such as Jessica Alba and Angelina Jolie.](https://www.madeformums.com/pregnancy/celebrity-mums-who-used-hypnotherapy-in-labour/) It’s even been suggested that royal family members, Kate Middleton and Meghan Markle used it to prepare for their births – but what exactly is it and why are so many women turning to Hypnobirthing? **What is Hypnobirthing?** Hypnobirthing is a childbirth preparation method taken as a set of weekly classes either in groups or privately, any time between 20-35 weeks of pregnancy. There are lots of styles of Hypnobirthing available today but they all originate from the Mongan Method, which is over 30 years old. There are also online Hypnobirthing classes available too There are a lot of [misconceptions as to what Hypnobirthing](https://www.loveparentinguae.com/single-post/2019/10/07/why-there-is-no-such-thing-as-a-hypnobirth) is and the type of person who chooses it. Many think it’s just for hippy types wanting a home or [water birth](https://nabtahealth.com/glossary/water-birth/) or those seemingly crazy women who want to do it without pain relief, but the truth is, all women can use it to have a calmer more positive birth experience, no matter what birth they choose or what path it takes. **What is the aim of Hypnobirthing?** One of the aims of Hypnobirthing is to support and increase the likelihood of physiological birth with the least amount of chemicals and interventions wherever possible. However if drugs or medical interventions are truly needed it enables the couple to remain calm and make informed evidence based decisions for themselves and their baby. #### **What are the benefits of natural physiological birth?** Studies have shown us that women and babies who have natural physiological births benefit from better health outcomes, adjustment to life outside the womb, emotional satisfaction with the birth experience and being able to cope well with the transition to motherhood. Read more about [physiological birth](http://www.birthtools.org/What-Is-Physiologic-Birth) and its benefits for families and society as a whole. Hypnobirthing promotes births that mirror nature as closely as possible so that babies and families can get off to the best start possible. #### **What if natural birth is not possible?** Unfortunately, natural physiological birth is not always possible in our current birth culture. There are a large number of influencing factors that we can’t control and birth can be quite unpredictable. So it’s important to acknowledge the wide range of birthing styles, combinations of drugs, interventions and different experiences that can happen, so we can fully prepare couples for all eventualities. The great news is that the knowledge and techniques learnt in Hypnobirthing classes are applicable in all situations and in all types of birth. In fact the tools can be even more useful in assisted births like C- sections, epidurals and inductions etc. because they keep the mother and baby calm during potentially more stressful events. #### **Real Hypnobirthing stories** Here are a few birth stories from parents who had all types of birthing experiences and how Hypnobirthing helped them through. [The induction for](https://babyandchild.ae/uae-birth-guide/article/1523/labour-was-more-powerful-and-beautiful-than-i-could-have-imagined) [gestational diabetes](https://nabtahealth.com/glossary/gestational-diabetes/) one [The induction and low](https://www.jasminecollin.com/single-post/2019/05/06/Taylors-Birth---A-calm-positive-tale-of-thrombocytopenia-induction-low-fluid-and-more) [amniotic fluid](https://nabtahealth.com/glossary/amniotic-fluid/) one [The planned gentle C-section one](https://www.jasminecollin.com/single-post/2017/04/16/Hanis-Birth---A-Family-Centred-Cesarean) [The one with no progress](https://www.jasminecollin.com/single-post/2017/05/04/Charleys-Birth) [The big baby one](https://babyandchild.ae/uae-birth-guide/birth-stories/article/1372/how-hypnobirthing-helped-me-give-birth-to-my-5kg-baby-drug-free) [The unplanned C-section one](https://www.jasminecollin.com/single-post/2015/05/10/10-Healthy-Foods-That-Calm-DeStress) [The VBA2C (Vaginal Birth after 2 C sections) one](https://www.jasminecollin.com/single-post/2017/04/23/Marsels-Birth---A-VBA2C-Story) [The planned vaginal](https://www.jasminecollin.com/single-post/2017/08/13/Phoenix-Willows-Breech-Birth) [breech](https://nabtahealth.com/glossary/breech/) one [The unplanned vaginal](https://www.jasminecollin.com/single-post/2017/01/26/Georges-Breech-Birth) [breech](https://nabtahealth.com/glossary/breech/) one As you can read in the birth stories, Hypnobirthing can benefit mothers and babies in all situations – but it’s not just them that benefit. Let’s not forget the partners. These days’ partners are not just welcome in the delivery room; they are expected to support the mother during labour and birth. However, without adequate training this can throw them into an environment and situation that they are not adequately prepared for. In Hypnobirthing classes partners gain invaluable knowledge and skills that they can apply in the birthing room to ensure a positive birth experience for the mother, baby and themselves. And the benefits don’t just stop in the birthing room. Lots of couples continue to use the tools for relaxing the mind and body long after the birth is over. Read- [7 surprising reasons to do Hypnobirthing that have nothing to do with birth](http://www.loveparentinguae.com/single-post/2017/08/02/7-Surprising-Reasons-To-Do-Hypnobirthing-Classes-That-Have-Nothing-To-Do-With-Birth) #### **So how does Hypnobirthing work exactly?** **During pregnancy** It empowers couples with the knowledge and belief that women’s bodies are designed to grow and birth their babies and that childbirth is a natural physiological process. It promotes healthy nutrition and physical exercise in pregnancy as being key factors in having a safe and easier birth as well sharing top tips on how to get the baby into the optimal position for birthing. Like any big physical event such as running a marathon or climbing a mountain, it’s not just physical preparation that makes the difference. Yes, physical fitness plays a big part, but a positive mindset and being emotional fit is just as important, and this is where Hypnobirthing comes in. Hypnobirthing de-hypnotises couples from all the negative information and fear that they’ve been conditioned with all their lives and updates their mindset through guided visualisations, affirmations and fear release work, all while they are very deeply relaxed or ‘in hypnosis’. Being in a natural state of hypnosis, promotes deep relaxation and being open to suggestion, so during pregnancy we can give the mind set an upgrade by accessing the sub conscious mind and reprograming it with more positive beliefs, thoughts and feelings about birth. When pregnant woman are calm and feel fully supported, their babies, who are literally swimming in their emotions, also feel the benefits. During classes there is also a focus on pre birth family bonding and this helps couples to adjust to their new roles and embrace early parenthood more easily. #### **Hypnobirthing during labour & birth** When a woman goes into labour with less fear and more understanding of how her body works and what it’s doing at each stage she can accept it more easily and experience it in a more positive way. When she relaxes and welcomes the sensations, rather than fighting them, they can then become easier to manage. Practically speaking Hypnobirthing teaches couples how to maximize the normal physiological birth process by creating the optimal environment for birth. Humans are biologically programmed in the same way that all mammals are and our birth environment needs are very similar. All mammals birth more easily in safe, warm, dark, private, quiet and undisturbed settings where there is no rush and no feeling of being watched or observed. In this ideal setting the perfect and natural combination of birthing hormones can be released and labour can progress. If however there is any sense of a potential threat or disturbance, our fight or flight response can release hormones that will slow or even stop labour. Even a bright light or a cold room is enough to slow down labour. It’s not always possible to control the external environment though, for example when driving to the hospital or in a typical hospital room, where it’s normally bright, busy and rushed, with lots of observation, disturbances and possible fear triggers. Hypnobirthing skills are crucial in these less than optimal settings because they enable the mother to create a calm and resourceful internal mental state. Using her practiced breathing, visualisations, affirmations and hypnosis she can bring her body and mind into a deep state of relaxation as if she were in the ideal environment. The body cannot tell the difference between real and imagined, so she can use this mind-body hack to convince her body that it’s a safe space and a good time to be birthing her baby. The body then continues releasing the perfect cocktail of hormones for a quicker, easier and more natural birth. #### But what about the pain? A birthing mother automatically reduces pain by being calmer and less frightened of the birth, and in calm, safe settings the birthing body naturally produces [endorphins](https://nabtahealth.com/glossary/endorphins/), our own natural pain relief, to help us cope with the intense physical sensations. In addition, Hypnobirthing mums can use hypnosis to disrupt and change the way that their brain processes pain signals. They also learn mental coping strategies and physical comfort tools to deal with any discomfort that they feel. All these factors make it less likely that they will need pain relieving drugs or unnecessary interventions and they tend to have more straightforward and quicker labours. Of course if a woman is struggling then there is a selection of pain relieving drugs that the hospital can offer. The aim of Hypnobirthing however is to ensure the couple have a complete toolbox of skills and techniques that they can utilize before getting to that point, so that it can be delayed or avoided all together. But, no matter how a baby is born or whatever interventions or drugs are used, the most important elements for every birthing mother are that: * She feels calm, safe, and supported throughout. * She feels that she did her best and gave it all she had. * She feels treated with dignity and respect. * And she was able to make her own informed choices about her baby, body and birth, every step of the way. These are the key ingredients to a positive birth experience and what Hypnobirthing is all about. Surely every mother and her family deserves this birth experience…not just the hippies. \_\_\_\_\_ Jasmine Collin is a mother of two, a qualified Hypnotherapist, NLP Practitioner, Childbirth Educator and Doula who specialises in Hypnobirthing and Parenting Originally from the UK she is the longest running teacher in the UAE and has been teaching her award winning ‘Love Birthing’ classes since 2009. She is the co founder of Love Parenting UAE, winner of the 2018 Time Out Kids Award for ‘Special recognition for pre and post natal care’ and is dedicated to helping couples have calmer, more positive births so that they can ‘Love Birthing’ no matter what kind of birth they choose or what path birth takes. For more information contact: [\[email protected\]](/cdn-cgi/l/email-protection) You can book Jasmine’s popular online Hypnobirthing services on the [Nabta Women’s Health Shop.](https://nabtahealth.com/product/the-love-birthing-hypnobirthing-course/) \_\_\_ Nabta is reshaping women’s healthcare. We support women with their personal health journeys, from everyday wellbeing to the uniquely female experiences of fertility, pregnancy, and [](https://nabtahealth.com/glossary)[menopause](https://nabtahealth.com/glossary/menopause/). You can track your menstrual cycle and get [personalised support by using the Nabta app.](https://nabtahealth.com/our-platform/nabta-app/) Get in [touch](/cdn-cgi/l/email-protection#acd5cdc0c0cdecc2cdced8cdc4c9cdc0d8c482cfc3c1) if you have any questions about this article or any aspect of women’s health. We’re here for you.